ion even care im so pressed tonight. anyway, why is asexual awareness day or whatever trending when just yesterday trans people’s rights were threatened, and are probably going to be taken away. And don’t give me that bullshit ‘owo they both need to have a light shed on them’ bc trans people are in fucking imminent danger here and we need support more than ever. For once in yall’s lives can you dig up some compassion and understanding? Call me aphobic all you want, but im sick of trans people being fucking ignored and left to fight for ourselves.
Don’t bother actin a fool, i’ll just block you
Can anyone on Tumblr shut the fuck up about asexuals for five fucking seconds? Can you please do that for me? I know you’re going to fucking assume I’m a cishet or some shit but I’m literally fucking tired of this. Who the fuck cares about a trending hashtag? We, as trans people, are going to lose our fucking rights in the near future and all you can fucking talk about is asexuals? Go to fucking hell and shove this post right up your ass on the way down. You have the fucking gall to gloat like “ooh stay mad” like it’s all some fucking game. I’ve not seen a single post from asexuals or some shit trying to distract from what the Trump administration is trying to push, but you’re so fucking absorbed in bullshit Tumblr politics that you literally cannot resist somehow bringing up asexuals. You’re fucking pathetic. People are going to lose their rights, their mental, spiritual, emotional, and physical health are in direct jeopardy because some of us might lose the right to change our bodies so we won’t want to fucking kill ourselves but oh thank fucking god that some loser online is speaking truth to power against the tumblr acey waceys!! This literally insignificant minority of people on a fucking website who happened to have an awareness day or whatever. You’re a fucking joke. Get your fucking shit together. Fuck this post and fuck everyone who reblogged it.
Full fucking offence OP but theres literally NO CORRELATION between ace people celebrating ace awareness week and trump administration threatening trans people’s rights and the fact that you are hiding behind the “Why dont we care about REAL issues!!!1!” to spread your disgusting views about asexuality is fucking DESPICABLE
TRANS ACE people exist and you arent doing them ANY favors by acting like they dont deserve to celebrate and talk about their aceness lol.In fact many of them are using ace awareness week to feel better about at least one part of their marginalized identity and distract themselves against something they cant control and telling them that they are horrible to do so isnt achieving ANYTHING
Its high fucking time yall stop taking out your anger on ace people and blaming them for every single problem in your life bc they are marginalized and can be easily rattled while the cis oppressors are too powerful to be affected by you.
Trump administration isnt gonna take back their decisions regarding trans people if people stopped celebrating ace awareness week so direct your efforts towards things that WILL MATTER and AFFECT this threat on trans people’s human rights instead of attacking marginalized orientations who just want to spend a WEEK without being felt guilty for existing
We will fight for trans people’s human rights AND celebrate ace awareness week.Also its SO funny how you are hiding the notes of ANYONE who is calling you out on your bullshit especially TRANS ACE people.Dont make posts speaking about trans people’s issues if you arent gonna listen to many of them
please have a terrible day week month year OP. you suck. you suck so much. punching on people who are already down. what a turd. what an absolute mess
Ace awareness week was a known date for like a year. It’s not any ace person’s fault the trans story broke at the same time. Also, shockingly, most people are able to care about multiple things at once, and if you’re too flighty to do the same, well, that’s only your fault.
A reminder that this blog supports Asexual Awareness Week, and also trans rights under the Trump administration. Both are important, and aces don’t deserve to have our pride diminished for the (phony) sake of us trans people.
hot take, but if you genuinely believe asexual means “doesn’t fuck” or “doesn’t want to fuck” you shouldn’t be involved in ace discourse.
like? if you don’t even understand the definition of the thing you’re arguing about you have no kind of authority or credibility to talk about it as if you do. knowing what this means is the absolute bare minimum to expect from a discourser; you don’t have to be an expert, obviously, but at least know what you’re talking about.
it’s really hard to have discussion when there are people who are so grossly misinformed but still think they’re right.
To be honest I don’t think they don’t understand, I think they just don’t care. Painting asexuality as “no fucky” is just another way to dismiss this identity and the experiences attached to it.
Same with the whole aroace thing, the huge majority of exclusionists know the discourse is not just about cishet aces and aros, they know they also exclude cis aroaces and aces who don’t use the SAM, but they just don’t care enough to take 2sec to acknowledge this. Because “cishet” is a simpler umbrella term, who cares if it’s a shitty thing to do.
I highly doubt this comes from a misunderstanding of the issue, but rather from a global disinterest in actually discoursing. I hope I’m wrong, but the discourse has been going on for so long that it seems unlikely that such misconceptions persist.
there’s actually a popular discourse post going around that says ‘including identities based off of weird sex practices (like asexuality and kink) means you equate gayness with abnormality’
so they actually do misunderstand asexuality fundamentally.
Are people actually equating asexuality with abnormality and kinks?
Tbh i think its more of a “I dont KNOW exactly what asexuality is and i dont CARE enough to educate myself on this topic and listen to ace people ” bc if it was only just a case of misunderstanding what asexuality fundamentally is then they would stop making aphobic posts or posts spreading wrong info about asexuality as soon as they were educated or corrected about asexuality by ace people but so far i havent seen any aphobe doing that .They just keep making stupid posts about asexuality and ignore everyone in the notes who keeps telling them that thats not what asexuality is about
good point, at this point they’re just being cruel and immoral
“we dont actually think aces are people who ‘dont like to fuck’, or ‘turbo virgins’, it’s just a joke”
hot take, but if you genuinely believe asexual means “doesn’t fuck” or “doesn’t want to fuck” you shouldn’t be involved in ace discourse.
like? if you don’t even understand the definition of the thing you’re arguing about you have no kind of authority or credibility to talk about it as if you do. knowing what this means is the absolute bare minimum to expect from a discourser; you don’t have to be an expert, obviously, but at least know what you’re talking about.
it’s really hard to have discussion when there are people who are so grossly misinformed but still think they’re right.
To be honest I don’t think they don’t understand, I think they just don’t care. Painting asexuality as “no fucky” is just another way to dismiss this identity and the experiences attached to it.
Same with the whole aroace thing, the huge majority of exclusionists know the discourse is not just about cishet aces and aros, they know they also exclude cis aroaces and aces who don’t use the SAM, but they just don’t care enough to take 2sec to acknowledge this. Because “cishet” is a simpler umbrella term, who cares if it’s a shitty thing to do.
I highly doubt this comes from a misunderstanding of the issue, but rather from a global disinterest in actually discoursing. I hope I’m wrong, but the discourse has been going on for so long that it seems unlikely that such misconceptions persist.
there’s actually a popular discourse post going around that says ‘including identities based off of weird sex practices (like asexuality and kink) means you equate gayness with abnormality’
so they actually do misunderstand asexuality fundamentally.
Are people actually equating asexuality with abnormality and kinks?
hot take, but if you genuinely believe asexual means “doesn’t fuck” or “doesn’t want to fuck” you shouldn’t be involved in ace discourse.
like? if you don’t even understand the definition of the thing you’re arguing about you have no kind of authority or credibility to talk about it as if you do. knowing what this means is the absolute bare minimum to expect from a discourser; you don’t have to be an expert, obviously, but at least know what you’re talking about.
it’s really hard to have discussion when there are people who are so grossly misinformed but still think they’re right.
To be honest I don’t think they don’t understand, I think they just don’t care. Painting asexuality as “no fucky” is just another way to dismiss this identity and the experiences attached to it.
Same with the whole aroace thing, the huge majority of exclusionists know the discourse is not just about cishet aces and aros, they know they also exclude cis aroaces and aces who don’t use the SAM, but they just don’t care enough to take 2sec to acknowledge this. Because “cishet” is a simpler umbrella term, who cares if it’s a shitty thing to do.
I highly doubt this comes from a misunderstanding of the issue, but rather from a global disinterest in actually discoursing. I hope I’m wrong, but the discourse has been going on for so long that it seems unlikely that such misconceptions persist.
there’s actually a popular discourse post going around that says ‘including identities based off of weird sex practices (like asexuality and kink) means you equate gayness with abnormality’
so they actually do misunderstand asexuality fundamentally.
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