hey uh not commenting on whether or not ace people can have sex and still be asexual but could yall stop trying to normalize the whole “i have sex to please my partner” thing
that sets up a power imbalance in a relationship and prioritizes one individual’s feelings as the thing that sets the boundary
if you arent feeling it then dont have sex
the day people stop policing my sexual life under the guise of ‘protecting me’ is the day i say tarte is my fav makeup brand
its bc they have too much time on their hands from all the sex they arent having
true
@herefortheace I know im white but seeing these whites discoursing about you specifically like this creeps me out. Thought you’d like to know.
imagine reacting to a black woman saying “it’s fucked up that people keep being misogynistic and racist under the guise of discourse” with “wow she’s so dramatic” and then to THAT “she should get laid” as if that’s not literally just textbook misogyny
anyone here heard of “hysteria” (women being too dramatic, ie having any emotional response to fucked to situations) and the “cure” to that which was basically “getting laid” (except it was the 17th cent so it was more like get raped)
IMO the ~*~Ace Discourse~*~ should have ended as soon as people started to discredit asexual rape survivors with “oh you weren’t really raped for being asexual, and somehow I know what happened better than you do.” That was the point where ace exclusion lost every shred of credibility it may have had from me. Sadly, there are way more disgusting rape apologists on this fucking website than there should be.
Literally hundreds of LGBT people on this site: mogai
culture hurt me and prolonged the time it took for me to work out my identity
because the microlabelling system reinforced my internalised
homophobia/transphobia. whilst some people do find the system helpful it needs
to be managed more effectively and we need to acknowledge that over analysing attraction
is most often not healthy and can do a lot of damage
Pro mogai: um?? First of all, that wasn’t MY experience so none of this has
ever happened to anyone ever. secondly, wow. thanks for calling my identity
inherently homophobic you bigoted fucks
this has got to be THE least self aware post i’ve ever seen
us: micro identities help us and having more identities available to us has helped so many of us to finally find an accurate description for how we experience attraction or gender and it has been a huge relief after misidentifying for so long because there was just no language to describe what i was experiencing
y’all: impossible. i thought i was nonbinary once and i almost died. you need to hide your useless identities from any questioning people because i’m allergic to self reflection and accepting that misidentification happens to everyone and that doesn’t mean it’s the label that’s bad but rather my own self centered thought processes leading me to “if i thought i was this identity and it turns out i wasn’t then that’s your fault for being that identity im not”
bye imma start oppressing bi people for believing i was bi for 3 years of my life, they gotta pay for reinforcing my internalized homophobia
Apparently it’s okay to blame entire identities that are not straight/cis for the problem that originated from cissexism and hetronormality! I had no idea!
If you think “experiences sexual attraction” is an insult you are a disgusting sex shamer and need to get your shit together buddy. Stop projecting your internalized bigotry onto the ace community.
having people fall for obvious troll ace positivity/kin blogs is practically just the same type of circlejerk antic the anti SJ community does when making strawman SJW blogs and that’s my hot take for today
diluting a community to the point where its unsafe for the people it was originally for will never be progressive no matter what you label it.
(op was a terf so im stealing this)
So, OP literally knows this is actual TERF rhetoric, as in they literally said a TERF wrote it and they stole it, so…you’re all 100% OK with using actual literal TERF rhetoric to attack other queer people?
imagine having this level of complete lack of self awareness holy shit
I’m not done with this, OP literally lifted a terf post word for word using the exact same argument for why their gatekeeping is actually good, and the terfs in the notes are going “fuck you op, its the lgb community only, it was oriignally made to bring lgb ppl together and nothing else UwU” which is exactly the kind of argument ppl like op and other gatekeepers bring to the table djsjsksk you can’t make this shit up folx
You cant make this shit up folx
[Image is a reblog of this post by user “radbian” that reads “@ gaymilotic you realize this post was about people exactly like you, right? You calling people vaginaworshippers is homophobia making the LGB community, as it was started for LGB people, unsafe for us.”]
Mmm anything to put down our real opressors, MOGAI.
whitemanning critical 