Some troll blog pretending to be asexual : Except ME coz im an ACEY and aces dont eat food they intake it haha :33
Popular blogger 2 : This reply fucking killed me.It broke down my windows and chopped off my fingers.This post fucking ripped my dick out of my body and sprinkled chill on my wounds.Ugh Lmao aceys are so #cringe amirite fellas?? 😉
Full offense but identities such as genderfluid, asexual, aromantic, queer-platonic (like wtf) aren’t LGBT. You are LGBT if you are a lesbian, gay, or bisexual. Also you’re LGBT if you’re trans. Nobody ever got killed for being genderfluid, aromantic, etc.
Bsshg, nobody can tell if you’re genderfluid unless you’re wearing a pin saying I’m genderfluid (even then people just think ya weird). You legit just look like ya androgynous and going through your emo phase. I used to call myself genderfluid and then a transboi, and then a nb girl. I was just a lesbian w/ internalized misogyny.
welp we’ve entered word for word terf rhetoric now, abandon ship
I’m screaming how are some of y’all actually out here telling aspec people that they’re to blame for your internalized homophobia because you identified as ace and/or aro as a result of your shame and discomfort like……….I identified as bisexual as part of my internalized lesbophobia because I was terrified of not being perceived as available to men………that isn’t the fault of bisexual women. my shit was my shit. it came out of heteronormativity, not bisexuals being oppressors lmaaaoooo. you don’t get to assign the blame for your struggles with hetero/cisnormativity on other people existing as themselves and creating words to describe their own marginalization and identity and pride wtf………..like that is solidly Not On Them are you fucking kidding
i mean its really difficult to pick just one but the weirdest idea to emerge in the “ace discourse” is that apparently many people, who otherwise have either liberal or lefitist beliefs, genuinely think that sex ed is harmful, predatory and a way for pedophiles to groom children
i am so tired. people worked for the lgbt community. people died for us. people protested and were arrested for us. people risked their lives just walking outside for us.
and you fuckers are ruining it. me being a lesbian? that’s something i can’t change. i CAN’T make myself not a part of this community. but because of all this shit no one takes me seriously anymore. nobody. my family calls me a dyke instead of lesbian because it’s a gross word. when i id’d as bi, they ignored it. now whenever i stand up for myself when they do something homophobic they think i’m standing up for all you fuckers with 20 labels. i’m not. you all can choke. i face more homophobia than i ever experienced now that you guys have made it to the mainstream media. you are stripping away everything the older lgbt people in our community have worked and died for because you just want to be included into something you don’t even fucking qualify for. you are taking the community they worked so hard for people to respect and we haven’t even gotten there yet. you are taking away the ability for actual lgbt people to come out because they’re scared of not being taken seriously. i didn’t come out because of that reason until 2 years ago- and as a lesbian 1 year ago even though i already knew. you are harming lgbt people. you are destroying our resources and rebuilding them to accomadate you when we need them. get the fuck out of our spaces. stay away from us. you’re doing nothing but harming us and ignoring it. you are setting us back years with every stupid article you guys make it into.
some journalist, most likely gay considering he’s writing for a goddamn gay magazine: sometimes people feel sexual attraction and asexuals use this term to describe them, it just means non-asexual
you: has a meltdown, blames everything wrong in their life on every single asexual person that has ever existed, despite most asexuals being lgbt themselves on top of already belonging to a marginalised orientation, invalidates people’s labels because apparently you can only call yourself gay or bi, implies we can “stop” being asexual, claims that people knowing that asexuality is a thing is “harming lgbt people” instead of you know, actually helping people understand who they are and avoid feeling broken and subsequently force themselves into having sex they don’t want to have
“a-spec” is and has always meant “autism spectrum,” not ace spectrum. “autism spectrum disorder” is the OFFICIAL DIAGNOSIS. it’s gotten to the point where ace discoursers will say, exclusively, “a-spec” instead of “ace people” and autistic people browsing autism tags and such will just get completely trapped in your discourse posts like butterflies in nets. they don’t understand why people are suddenly saying autistic people aren’t real or valid or oppressed. like. that’s not fair lmao.
a-spec means autistic. so stop fucking using it to mean ace.
Multiple autistic people have confirmed that ‘aspec’ has never referred to autism. Insisting otherwise is erasing thousands of voices.
– Fae
As this autistic kid, the only term that would be reserved specifically for autistic folks would be “on the spectrum.” Everything else is, for the most part, unrelated. A-spec may, sometimes, be used to mean autistic. That’s true. But the color spectrum isn’t ableist. A-spec isn’t either. Any word or abbreviation with the word “spectrum” added onto the end does not necessarily need to become ableist or appropriative, considering that in this case it was certainly not intended as such. We’ve discussed this so many times folks. Come on. – Ino
op getting fucking obliterated in the notes is my aesthetic
op getting fucking obliterated in the notes is my aesthetic
^Haiku^bot^8. I detect haikus with 5-7-5 format. Sometimes I make mistakes.
I love how there real, core problems in the queer community, such as rampant racism, misogyny, classism, transphobia, ableism, islamophobia, anti-semitism, xenophobia, I could go on.
But a few people on tumblr.com have apparently decided to dedicate chunks of their time to the complete non-issue which whether asexuals should continue to be allowed into queer spaces or not with leftover bi/transphobia spiel.
Yeah you’re really making a difference telling a perhaps over-zealous teenager who you’ve never met that they don’t belong. Get fucked.
ace discourse went from half decent serious topics being discussed to “ace people need to die and it’s funny I said this and not bad and also you’re a homophobic monster if you ID anywhere on the ace spectrum in any capacity oh and if you ever disclose your asexuality you’re a homophobe mocking coming out but if you don’t disclose it you’re abusing your partner”
there are so many people taking this as some kind of personal attack and I’m just like “well I mean I didn’t have you in mind but if the asshole shoe fits”
full offense inclusionists don’t respect trans people and frankly they kind of hate us
This is so funny because yall are the ones whonsay that straight trans people somehow oppress cis LGB+ people, have a shit ton of truscum, freak out whenever we say that cis white gays and lesbians have never been excluded from the community, and go around pretending to be trans women of color for discourse points while being cis white girls, but sure, its inclusionists who don’t respect and hate trans people. Totally.
Exclusionists have:
Pretended to be trans women of color… Twice
Called trans poc homophobes for pointing out that cis whites have the most privilege in the community
Dismissed proof that exclusionism is being used to recruit transmisogynists
Defended cis people
defended transmisogynists
Admitted several times that they think nonbinary people are straight, unless they identify as mlm or wlw
dismiss complaints that “sga” doesn’t include nonbinary genders
platformed truscum
Openly mocked demigenders without consequence
Ignored the fact that “MOGAI HELL” was started by truscum
LITERARY SAID THAT TRANSMISOGYNISTS ARE FEMINISTS
Made fake lists of “inclusionist pedophiles” who were mostly trans people, just to discredit inclusionists
Literally said that we couldn’t exclude TERFs from the community, in response to trans women asking you to actually give a fuck about us
They also twisted and mangled the term cishet, which WAS a useful term for trans non-straight people to refer to cis straight people, into a dog whistle
On top of that, when trans people asked them to stop, they openly refused
Oh, and let’s not forget that one cis gay guy who said that ace/aro trans people didn’t belong in the community as much as he did
whitemanning critical 