So there’s a new faked screenshot going around, apparently. It should surprise nobody who’s looking here that it is, in fact, fake as hell and antithetical to all we hold dear.
If anyone can put a copy in our hands, we’d greatly appreciate it. Our ask box and messenger are open.
Found a copy on FSTDT. Funny how they have to keep dragging people who don’t know what’s going on to be their weapons. Funny how they still can’t fake a decent screenshot.
The words they’re putting in our mouths this time are particularly vile, so I’m gonna put it below a cut, along with ways you can verify my account for yourselves.
This is what people are contributing to when they reblog sleepdontvisit/rebelbaze/aroacechirrut’s repeatedly-debunked lists of “inclusionist pedophiles”. Every time you go straight to “lmao aren’t you a pedo though” when talking to a random inclusionist. Every time you reblog uncritically from sleepdontvisit.
You’re helping build the toxic, abusive environment where people see an obviously, recognizably faked screenshot, and don’t even think before reblogging because “isn’t this [sexually abused trans woman with children who has spoken out over and over against CSA] a known pedophile anyway?”
I am so freaking angry right now.
THIS is why will never take the discourse seriously. Jesus fucking christ
I’m going to fucking shoot a wall. This is the same fucking thing conservatives have been doing to trans women for ages. I know two babies who are with a neglectful mother and alcoholic abusive step father because of these type of accusations. Where do you think her child would end up if you actually managed to get them taken away? She has already said that her father is abusive, and grandparents and other relatives are usually the first choice for relocating a child. I mean there’s also foster care but considering she lives in Nova Scotia theirtrackrecordisn’texactly good. (that last link talks about death so tread carefully, if you only click one, click that one)
This type of smear campaign literally endangers children.Please fucking stop.
I’m so emotional and upset because this type of thing is affecting my family. ohmyfuckinggod.
I’m so tired, also @wetwareproblem isn’t wealthy. And the couple I know have a trust fund and had to sell their house to afford the lawyers to take CFS to court.
I really want to see where on Tumblr this is being spread though, and by whom. But I probably have them all blocked. Maybe if I log out and do a search….
Say it with me folks: Asexuality is not “not fucking”
do y’all really take it that literally. it’s just funny exaggeration lmao
u ppl keep basing ur entire shitty rhetoric around that so
So how are ace ppl whomst fuck oppressed by aphobia if aphobia centers around not liking sex in all the examples y’all give 🤔
right, exactly, you people were never ‘exaggerating’
like we as aspec people have discussions about how to stop feeling in danger whenever we out ourselves and all that, but all u exclus just keep holding onto the misconception that we just ‘dont like sex’
what so, if my date doesn’t like pegging are they on the aspec according to you or smth
or rather – if someone doesn’t feel drawn to individuals the same way we’re taught is the epitome of human growth, does that mean the same thing as sex repulsion? hmmm
that’s a long winded way to avoid my question.
if many aces function the same way as non-aces minus feeling *~drawn~* to ppl literally what is there to worry about? plant jokes? lmao
second sentence from the top
so ur problem is feeling unsafe for literally no reason other than ppl thinking ur weird. cool.
b-but i thought the assault, dehumanizing medicalization, abuse, blockade from lifesaving resources and etc (that aphobes at least acknowledge happen) was just ‘misdirected misogyny’
like which is it, are we in real danger that ‘doesn’t count’ bc we’re just perfomative gnc nondysphoric people, or do these things not exist at all
oops its almost like acephobia is a permeative experience that isn’t solely defined by what aspec people share with allo ppl
not to start the spiciest of discourse but why is every single aphobe a high school aged lesbian who claims to hate terfs despite adopting every bit of their language and ideology
Say it with me folks: Asexuality is not “not fucking”
do y’all really take it that literally. it’s just funny exaggeration lmao
u ppl keep basing ur entire shitty rhetoric around that so
So how are ace ppl whomst fuck oppressed by aphobia if aphobia centers around not liking sex in all the examples y’all give 🤔
right, exactly, you people were never ‘exaggerating’
like we as aspec people have discussions about how to stop feeling in danger whenever we out ourselves and all that, but all u exclus just keep holding onto the misconception that we just ‘dont like sex’
what so, if my date doesn’t like pegging are they on the aspec according to you or smth
or rather – if someone doesn’t feel drawn to individuals the same way we’re taught is the epitome of human growth, does that mean the same thing as sex repulsion? hmmm
This self-help book on Amazon offers a horrifically aphobic rhetoric of how to ‘survive’ when you’re ‘trapped’ in a relationship with an aspec person. It’s clear that the author doesn’t understand asexuality at all.
It’s not abusive to not want sex with your partner, and it’s certainly abusive to warp the entire relationship around this perceived flaw of theirs.
– Fae
But the straights love us aceys, right? But aphobia isn’t real, right? We’re all just making it up though, right?!!
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