Tag: Anonymous

Hii ! i have a few posts recs for u for you “ref” tag on FYA bc i feel like more ppl need to see these posts with good arguments and sources against why ace exclusion is bad : thefemaleofspecies(.)tumblr(.)com/post/177587211689/im-not-gonna-reblog-this-from-op-bc-they-run-an ;; queerleftists(.)tumblr(.)com/post/175657283804/ya-know-its-ironic-that-ace-exclusionists-are ;; actuallyasexual(.)tumblr(.)com/post/164640207126/i-get-frequent-asks-about-what-ace-discourse-is

links to the posts here!

sorry if this is a weird question, but i’m a sex-repulsed asexual and i’ve got some sex ed related questions. do you know of any good blogs that i could get advice from? i don’t want to risk being told that i’m “not really asexual” just because i want advice on more intimate (but non-sexual, non-genital related) forms of touch. i love your blog, btw!!!

i honestly dont know of any blogs that specialize in sex ed for aces specifically. ive only written my own posts in the form of my ‘asexual sex ed’ tag.

maybe someone out there knows a few?

Hello! Just an ace lesbian here who is scared of the lesbian community for being aphobic n scared of the ace community for being homophobic. U seem chill and I’d love to follow you BUUUT (and forgive me for asking in case you’re a decent person) I need to check: do u harbor any deep-seated resentment towards lesbians and/or generalize abt us?

uhhhhhhh no? like i do agree that the lesbian community as a community has problems, but they’re problems shared amongst a lot of other communities – including but not limited to – racism, transphobia, ableism, pedophilia, enbyphobia, aphobia, etc

so i dont ‘resent lesbians’ any more than i resent other people that are involved with communities that have problems. like i sure as hell resent the current ace community for being white, i resent the trans community a LOT for being uhghg what it is, i resent the disabled community, i resent a lot of communities that im personally involved in

tbh i am pretty tired of women in general, im a nonbinary person and im tired of dealing with women who dont accept my gender. white women are worse. white aphobic women make me want to screm

i just want to know more people like me and stop being forced into spaces with cis white binary mono allo neurotypical ppl and act like they’re deserving of the same attention im due because they’re women who like other women