Tag: gender stuff

This is going to be a really weird sounding ask but I was going through your gender tag and I don’t think I’ve ever heard somebody express their gender id the same way you do?? Which imo is really cool and fantastic but since you say you don’t experience dysphoria OR euphoria I guess I wanted to ask a really strange question that I hope doesn’t come across as offensive but how would you define the difference between yourself taking T and a cis woman taking T? Is it just your gender ID?

i mean, yeah i guess?? its the same difference between any cis person and a trans person. my say so. dysphoria isn’t the only reason hrt exists. dysphoria isnt the only factor for transition.

there are LOTS of trans people like me, but our voices tend to be circulated less. its not the tragedy porn people want to see. 

plus, informed consent hrt is uncommon, so trans people like me only have the chance to get it if they live near a clinic that offers these options, rather than having to shell out 500$ for a psychologist over two months to get a prescription letter, then taking it to a health provider for the hrt.

nonbinarypastels:

not to be dramatic but this discourse about “only nonbinary people are allowed to be attracted to unaligned nbs, if anyone else does it they’re fetishizing!” makes my unaligned ass want to go on dates with a thousand men and women and send the people perpetuating this shit the bills for it out of pure petty spite.

Hey idk if ur comfortable talkin abt this but could u elaborate any on ur decision to go on T…? I’ve been debating it for a while & im not dysphoric but u said u were also non “euphoric” so to speak so I guess I’m wondering how I knew it was the right choice? It’s ok if u don’t wanna talk abt it thanks anyways tho

because i knew it was for me, and that i’d do it eventually

just decided to start now cause i could