Tag: personal

as a cis person, it confuses me how someone can be trans w/o any sort of dysphoria? like dysphoria means u are not comfortable with ur binary sex and how it does not relate w the way you see yourself but?? how can u be trans while being fine with that like??? sorry if it sounds rude I’m just confusion

‘gender dysphoria’ refers to a lot of things, none of which pertain to me. it could mean;

  • distress stemming from certain parts of your body
  • distress stemming from society’s treatment of you
  • and/or a feeling of ‘depersonalization’ from either

and i dont experience anything like that, i’m trans because my gender is different than the one imposed upon me. thats the definition of trans.

i started hrt bc i knew it was for me, it was my way of continuing my life forward, the same as many decisions i make

I don’t know how often you get an order from over the pond, but I just wanted to say that my soaps arrived today after a bit more than two weeks, of which ~10 days were spent on the last ~50 km because Europe TnT (Also someone at customs messed up and basically combined our adresses on the customs declaration label which probably didn’t help in the delivery xDDD) Even before opening the little package already smelled really great! Thank you & keep being proud of yourself! :DD

wow!!! thanks for the feedback! im so glad you liked them, i know overseas shipping is ridic and its always a surprise to see how many people from australia or germany or the uk order them!!!

I am so sorry about the stuff you’ve had to put up with involving the Artemis discourse. I am so so proud of you for pursuing something you enjoy/are passionate about, even though it’s a lot of work and you get a lot of hate for it. They honestly shouldn’t be involved with this. It’s just as bad as if they had gone to the amazon page for an ace pride flag and left bad reviews bc of the purple discourse. Don’t let them get you down!!

Hello! Just an ace lesbian here who is scared of the lesbian community for being aphobic n scared of the ace community for being homophobic. U seem chill and I’d love to follow you BUUUT (and forgive me for asking in case you’re a decent person) I need to check: do u harbor any deep-seated resentment towards lesbians and/or generalize abt us?

uhhhhhhh no? like i do agree that the lesbian community as a community has problems, but they’re problems shared amongst a lot of other communities – including but not limited to – racism, transphobia, ableism, pedophilia, enbyphobia, aphobia, etc

so i dont ‘resent lesbians’ any more than i resent other people that are involved with communities that have problems. like i sure as hell resent the current ace community for being white, i resent the trans community a LOT for being uhghg what it is, i resent the disabled community, i resent a lot of communities that im personally involved in

tbh i am pretty tired of women in general, im a nonbinary person and im tired of dealing with women who dont accept my gender. white women are worse. white aphobic women make me want to screm

i just want to know more people like me and stop being forced into spaces with cis white binary mono allo neurotypical ppl and act like they’re deserving of the same attention im due because they’re women who like other women