I take back what I said about nb people being no more or less privileged than binary trans people
We get mocked and ridiculed by everyone, including OTHER TRANS PEOPLE, we get less access to medical transition aids, we get treated as a joke by everyone and massive groups of our own people hate us
binary privilege is a thing. sorry I ever thought otherwise
Things You Only Discover By Coming Out As Nonbinary
i recently came out as a binary trans woman (thought I was nb before) and I can absolutely attest to what op’s saying, ppl have been way more chill to me in all regards. binary privilege is real yall
same tbh. im a mostly binary trans man who id’d as nonbinary for a year and i can attest to this.
Truscum 1: SHE is a FAKE TRANS!!!!!! This is a GIRL!! SHE is very bad!!!!!
Truscum 2: 😢😭 Thank you so much…. for standing up for the trans community… 😭😭by misgendering and invalidating that FAKE TRANS. It’s so heartwarming as a REAL MASCULINE TRANS MAN.
Truscum 1: I know… gatekeeping can be so hard sometimes but I keep on doing it for doing god’s work because I know misgendering and creating hateful content is the right thing to do… thank you so much for your support…. 😢😭
If your understanding of ‘institutional oppression’ is defined by the numbers you bother to access or happen to come across, you’re neither aware nor developed in your sense of justice.
– Fae
please say sike
transmisogynistic enby/aphobe in MY discourse? it’s more likely than u think
if you were lgbt and ace why would you… literally ever tell someone that. being bi, gay, or a lesbian is not about whether you have sex. that’s between you and your partner. your ‘sexuality’ isn’t about what you do with your body it’s moreso a relation to society anyway. learn your history
Translation: I don’t actually understand what asexuality means and I love double standards.
Tag yourself I’m the “LGBT” but not mentioning anything about trans people.
18+ yo mogais don’t interact with questioning lgbt kids challenge
fuck yes! it’s because of cunts like this that i thought i was fucking genderfluid when i was 11 years old.
bitch shut up
If you don’t want Transmeds on your shitty posts, maybe don’t promote their shitty ideologies or use their shitty rhetoric.
The MOGAI community was founded by nonbinary people who felt excluded from the default “LGBT” acronym. Anti-mogai was started by Transmeds to erase nonbinary people.
Anti-MOGAI is pro-transmed, because transmeds started the anti-mogai shitstorm. I was there when anti-mogai started. You do not get to argue against me on this.
And no, it isn’t homophobic for me to compare you to an oppressed group that claims to keep oppressors out, but is actually just excluding their own people and making everyone miserable.
first of all, check out this (x)post first. it’s required reading.
when you want to indoctrinate someone into an ideology they find repulsive, the first thing you do is introduce them to the themes of that ideology but package it in a way that they’ll accept.
we’ll call the person being groomed to accept TERF ideology the “mark”. con man terminology seems fitting.
If you want to turn them against a group they currently want to protect (we’ll call this group A), then you need to first introduce them to all the arguments you’ll use to demonize group A in a setting where they’ll be open to accepting these arguments.
the easiest way to do this is to use these same arguments and tactics to demonize another group that your mark feels neutral/volatile toward, and we’ll call this group B.
keep the tactics the same, keep your means of propaganda the same- but pick an acceptable target. a target that won’t make your mark feel a defensive gut reaction like they would if you attacked group A off the bat.
as long as you convince your mark that your reasons for despising group B are valid, then if you play your cards right and indoctrinate them deeply enough into hating group B, they’ll be far more open to accepting your ideology when you say that group A is evil for the same reasons as group B.
this is propaganda, cult mentality, and scapegoating 101.
but the most important factor in this is making sure all of your arguments used against group B are nearly identical to those used against group A. You slowly get your mark to recognize these arguments as totally logical and valid reasons to despise a group of people, so that when you reveal that group A supposedly shares those traits with group B, your mark won’t be able to claim that your hatred of group A is wrong without also admitting their hatred of group B was also wrong. and at this point, your mark will be so deeply entrenched in a hatred for group B that their pride and anger won’t allow them to admit that their hatred isn’t grounded in logic.
they’ll declare group A to be their enemy sooner than they’ll swallow their pride and admit they were wrong to hate group B.
this is why TERF’s are almost exclusively ace exclusionists, and why there’s screenshots floating around of TERFs admitting that ace exclusionism helped them “realize” that TERF ideology was “right”.
“WORDS MEAN DIFFERENT THINGS WHEN YOU CHANGE THEM, SO IT DOESN’T MATTER IF ACE EXCLUSIONIST RHETORIC READS JUST LIKE TERF RHETORIC BUT WITH ‘TRANSGENDER’ SWITCHED WITH ‘ASEXUAL’!”
The fact that TERFs and acephobes used the same arguments couldn’t be more relevant, because you’re being groomed to accept these arguments as being logical so that you’ll be susceptible to recruitment when you see the same argumentative points coming from TERFs.
“All the studies claiming they face housing discrimination and sexual assault for their identity are fake, they’ve been debunked!”
“They only reason ANY LGBT organization acknowledges them is because they feel THREATENED by them!”
“They’re our oppressor, and any violence they face is only because society associates them with us! So it’s their own fault for having a fetish for pretending to be oppressed! What few assaults happen would stop if they just dropped the facade and admitted they’re privileged.”
“They’re ‘educaiting’ MINORS about their bullshit labels. They’re trying to get CHILDREN involved in their weird oppression fetish, am I the only one who finds that really predatory?”
“The fact they’re so obsessed with entering our spaces when we feel unsafe around them literally proves that they’re no different from any other member of our oppressor lmao”
if i hear “That peer-reviewed nation wide study was debunked in three paragraphs by a 16 yr old on tumblr! so those victims of oppression don’t actually exist” one more fucking time.
remember that time discourseprincesa, a cis girl, called for the deaths of a handful of specific trans women who’d pointed out these similarities while acephobes defended her doing so and cheered her on. yeah
someone reblog this with screenshots of one of the “Yeah, acephobia led me into radical feminism” incidents.
acephobes. you’re literally being desensitized to TERF talking points. trans women keep warning you, TERFs keep making ace exclusionist blogs to try and convert you. TERF methods are inherently wrong whether they’re used against trans women or asexuals, because these methods are literally designed specifically to discredit an oppressed group so that violence against them isn’t taken seriously.
little TERFs in training. TERFlets.
“someone reblog this with screenshots of one of the “Yeah, acephobia led me into radical feminism” incidents.“
You mean like this.
I’ve been asking for receipts on this for a while. Here’s one.
i wasn’t ‘wary’ of cis white lesbian exclusionistic women until years of facing their transphobia, racism, and aphobia
so just maybe, people who have every right to avoid further oppression under guise, especially since its just … not interacting with users that have, like, a specific tumblr theme going on or w/e
bc in comparison, you ppl literally invaded a safe space not intended for you, and secretly took a random user’s words out of context to laugh at, hmmmmmmm
like maybe its about time you people took this opportunity to examine that being gay isn’t actually the Great overarching politic of All Time and lesbians really do have problems as a community oh wait does that only apply to everyone else
whitemanning critical 