as a cis person, it confuses me how someone can be trans w/o any sort of dysphoria? like dysphoria means u are not comfortable with ur binary sex and how it does not relate w the way you see yourself but?? how can u be trans while being fine with that like??? sorry if it sounds rude I’m just confusion

‘gender dysphoria’ refers to a lot of things, none of which pertain to me. it could mean;

  • distress stemming from certain parts of your body
  • distress stemming from society’s treatment of you
  • and/or a feeling of ‘depersonalization’ from either

and i dont experience anything like that, i’m trans because my gender is different than the one imposed upon me. thats the definition of trans.

i started hrt bc i knew it was for me, it was my way of continuing my life forward, the same as many decisions i make

I feel ashamed about when asked what being asexual mean I said “not wanting to have sex with other people” but I’m working no time to explain. Come to think of it I should just told them go google it, internet is free. Or just told them shut the fuck up. At least they stop asking when I’m gonna get a bf after I accidentally came out as ace aro. Just being mocked for multiple times by that one person to the point I almost want to kill myself, again. So yeah, lying is bad you should out yourself!

I don’t know how often you get an order from over the pond, but I just wanted to say that my soaps arrived today after a bit more than two weeks, of which ~10 days were spent on the last ~50 km because Europe TnT (Also someone at customs messed up and basically combined our adresses on the customs declaration label which probably didn’t help in the delivery xDDD) Even before opening the little package already smelled really great! Thank you & keep being proud of yourself! :DD

wow!!! thanks for the feedback! im so glad you liked them, i know overseas shipping is ridic and its always a surprise to see how many people from australia or germany or the uk order them!!!

I always see “sex education” as a subject that should be taught like other subjects. How human body works why we change and then change some more and why this and that happened. Back then (I’m not from USA) the sex Ed was just a two hours long or shorter lessons “talking about, you know, tHaT”. It happened twice: once in primary school and then secondary school, so like when we were 11 and 12. We also have the lessons separately, as in boys and girls will be in the different classroom. (1/2)

(2/2) I learn more about how to safely deliver babies from Red Cross First aid manual (in your own house/on the way to the hospital). I want to know what will happen to my body as I grow up. I also want to know that yes some people want to have sex with other people but it’s also totally fine not wanting to. That having sex isn’t the only and the most (important) thing you do with your lovers. And don’t treat periods as something to mock/shame about. It should be about knowing our body.

sex ed should be taught at a young age, my first forray into sex ed was in 4th grade and it was basically a scare about STIs. but us kids were getting embaressed about getting boners and other stuff by then, we needed more answers

also can ppl stop trying to convince me that sex ed is important, that post wasn’t about sex ed as a subject, it was about exclusionists trying to ban asexuality 

“Sex Ed” is about knowing how our body works/changes. And by works I mean about periods, how babies are “made”, what sex is and it’s not a (secret) game and you should tell no one. Knowing it’s okay/normal/fine to not wanting to have sex with other people and you shouldn’t force people to—I don’t know. And by change I mean when we become teen and then adults. It’s normal wanting to learn things about us, the human body we are wearing, right?

you dont have to convince me sex ed is important buddy, that post was about aphobes telling young questioning aces that they can’t be ace