once again no one is addressing my ‘sex ed’ post’s real meaning and instead ricocheting it across their echo chamber bc they truly wanna believe that’s what i meant
We know that when you say ‘sex education’, you really mean ‘I’m attempting to stop people identifying as asexual and instead be whatever Rad Politik identity I want them to be.’
We know that when you say ‘sex positivity’, you really mean ‘I consider the mark of radical personal growth to be sexually explicit, and I’ll force others to comply likewise.’
We know that when you say ‘stop self-hate’, you really mean ‘non-heteroromantic aces aren’t good enough, we need them to get over their asexuality and become one of us.’
You’re merely the newest generation of exclusionary predators who hide under the guise of ___ education/positivity/anti-’self hate’. Your logic is old and boring, and we all know better.
I can’t believe I just had to read this garbage post with my own two eyes how does someone type all this shit out and then hit post like how little awareness do you have I cant even imagine being this far up my own ass
this kind of thinking literally kills gay men full stop. if comprehensive LGBT inclusive sex ed had existed when i was in my early teens then i would have known the realities of gay men and HIV/AIDS and probably wouldn’t have had unprotected sex with multiple partners from ages 14-17.
calling gay people predators for wanting to save each other lives is a new low
heads-up, op is a mod on fuckyeahasexual. if anyone’s still following that blog, i’d highly recommend not doing that.
one more time; this post is being violently misread, its about how people try to get ace people to stop identifying as ace under the guise of ‘sex ed’
so maybe chill and at the same time address how you ppl try to get kids to stop learning about safety and bodily health because you’re the ones who actually try to ban comprehensive lgbt inclusive sex ed
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So there’s this experiment where researchers take a bunch of preschoolers and give them a marshmallow and they say, “ok, you can eat this now, or you can wait thirty minutes and then we’ll give you two marshmallows.”
And they leave them alone with hidden cameras and watch the struggle of willpower and it’s supposed to say something about delayed gratification.
And this thing gets used to explain why some people are better with money than others, or make various other better life choices. The Aesop here is if you can delay your satisfaction, you’ll get ahead.
But here’s a proposed version of that experiment that’s more realistic.
Give the kid the marshmallow and explain it all as above. Then come back 30 minutes later and say, “Sorry, actually we ran out of marshmallows, so even though you didn’t eat yours, you’re not getting a second one. Other kids got two, but you don’t. Also, every kid with fewer than two marshmallows has to give back their original marshmallow. Sorry we didn’t tell you that earlier now hand it over.”
Then call them back for a repeat experiment where you give them the same offer. See how many kids scarf that marshmallow down in two seconds flat because like hell they’ll trust you again.
If it’s the experiment I’m thinking of they did run the experiment again, and this time did take into account something they didn’t before: the socio-economic level of the children involved and if there had been broken promises made before to them. Children from lower socio-economic circumstances who had been let down in the past were far more likely to eat the marshmallow the first time around. The experimenters then showed the kids they had the two marshmallows to give them and let them out.
Then comes the fun part: they ran the experiment again.
This time, those kids who ate the marshmallow before waited. Without any further prompting than keeping their word, the scientists destroyed the notion that children in poverty are more prone to poor impulse control or are more likely to scarf down sugar than rich kids.
Oh now that is interesting! I’d never heard that follow-up before.
When I first learned about this case study in college, something about it felt incomplete, but I could never really put my finger on it. It seemed overly simplistic, but I couldn’t see the missing piece because in was in one of my cognitive blind spots.
Knowing about this follow up is incredibly valuable and insightful!
And this is why it’s vital for human beings to check our assumptions and always be on the lookout for cognitive blind spots. Because even one missing variable can mean the difference between transformative insight and generations of deeply embedded misconceptions.
This is also why it’s important for the scientific community to actively seek out scientists with diverse backgrounds and perspectives. It’s not about arbitrary “diversity quotas,” it’s about pursuing a diversity of insight.
“Not all NBs identify as trans” does not mean “some NBs are cis” Jesus Christ
Especially since some of y’all fuckos think the difference between a trans NB and a “cis” one is how much they hate their body and want to medically ~fix it
People
always bring up the Tevinter Imperium both on this website and in the
game in discussions surrounding mage rights, which I feel like is a
fundamental misunderstanding of the actual problem with Tevinter.
The
evils of the Imperium are not about magic.
They
never were. If they had been, we would not be seeing the exact same
or similar evils in places like Orlais and the Free Marches were
mages are kept away from the general population, constantly watched
and killed or made tranquil for the smallest of crime. If they had
been, there would not be enslaved mages in the Imperium itself.
The
issue – like in Orlais, and in some of the cities of the Free
Marches, and even in Ferelden – is aristocracy.
If
magic is what causes the ruling class of Tevinter to seek power by
any means necessary, how do we explain people like Arl Howe, who had
his closest friend and his entire family killed just gain the Teyrnir
of Highever? What about Gaspard going to war with his cousin for the
sole reason of invading Ferelden again? What about Celene killing
every single one of her servants to put herself on the throne? Or
every single other member of the Orlesian nobility playing the Game?
How do we explain Loghain selling Fereldan citizens into slavery to
fund both a civil war and fighting the blight? Or Behlen, willing to
have both of his older siblings killed for a shot at the throne?
Need
I remind you that it’s established in The Calling in Fiona’s
backstory that slavery is very much still the reality of many
Orlesian elves, and that absolutely nothing is being done to combat
it?
Wanting
power was never exclusive to Tevinter Magisters.
“But
mages are dangerous”, someone will no doubt try to remind me. “Look
at all that power they have at their fingertips!”
The
thing is, the chantry never seem to have an issue with that power so
long as they can use it for free labor or to fight in their exalted
marches.
They
turn mages into weapons against their will and then start preaching
about how dangerous they are.
Not
to mention how incredibly hypocritical it is to use Tevinter to
justify the Circle, where
mages are forced to provide the chantry with free labor, frequently
abused, and often made tranquil if they resist too much.
This is in no way a defense of Tevinter (every single magister can choke in my honest opinion), but rather, of mage freedom.